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Saturday, June 14, 2014

Love Your Teammates Even When you Lose

 John 13:31-35

 

Have you ever noticed that when a team wins a championship oftentimes one of the players will be quoted saying how much he loves all his teammates; how they are a family? But have you ever seen a player from the losing team make a similar statement? I haven’t.

I’m not picking on athletes. It is human nature to feel good about, or “love”, those you have a relationship with when everything is going well. That seems to be the situation that the disciples find themselves in this passage. In it, Jesus gave his closest disciples a “new command”.

“Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.”

This command comes on the heels of Jesus entering Jerusalem like a king. His movement/organization seemed to be firing on all cylinders. The expectations of his disciples must have been flying sky high. So when Jesus gave them this new command what did they think?

Are they like the winning player who “loves his teammates” because everything is going well? For the disciples’ way of thinking, they are winning the game. They might even be thinking that Jesus will be in power soon and they should be next in line.

But Jesus knows that the storm is about to hit. In fact, he spells out his new command more clearly in John 15:12-13:

"My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.”

What does this kind of sacrificial love look like for us today? In Ephesians 5:25-27 Paul instructs husbands to “love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy… without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish.”

In the same way, Jesus is calling us to love our brothers and sisters in Christ with a love that desires the best for them. This requires being honest, vulnerable and giving unconditional love.
 
It means, we are to love each other with our warts and blemishes, just as Christ loves us. It means we are to love each other not just when we win the game, but when life is a struggle; when life seems out of control; even when we lose the game.
 

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