This time last year my family was preparing to say goodbye. We weren’t sure when it would happen, but we knew it was coming. He’d been diagnosed with brain cancer several months prior and been in and out of the hospital. At the time of his death, he was being cared for by a wonderful inpatient hospice team. I truly appreciate all they did to make those last weeks comfortable not only for him, but for us as well.
No one wants to visit a loved one in hospice, but there was a calmness to the place. I especially loved the stained glass window in the little prayer room. I can only imagine the amount of tears shed there, but also the hugs and laughter while family and friends remember happier times.
I think the words of 1 Thessalonians 5:15-16 are applicable here... Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else. Rejoice always.
It’s so easy when facing death to want to “pay back wrong for wrong,” to want others to hurt the way you’re hurting. Grief almost certainly comes with some degree of anger and resentment and if we’re not armed with the tools of resistance, rejoicing, love and prayer the pain can easily become overwhelming.
It’s during these dark times we need to “do what is good for each other.” We need to look out for one another and pray for the strength to make it through. Having others there to support you makes all the difference.
Lord, I know there are many families dealing with the pain of loss right now. Please equip them with the tools they need and bring them the peace they so desperately seek. May they feel wrapped in the arms of your love today and always. Amen
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