Do What I Say, Not What I Do

Matthew 23:1-12

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“Do what I say, not what I do.” I think the first time I heard someone say that, it was a football coach, or it might have been a teacher. For sure, it wasn’t my Dad! He gave me rules to live by, held me accountable and lived them out in his own life.

 

In Matthew 23:1-12, Jesus is speaking to those who are his followers. Later in the chapter his words are directed at the Pharisees, the teachers of the law and the religious leaders in general. It’s a scathing indictment of how they live their life, not by the Law of Moses which they preach, but by their own set of hypocritical rules.

 

Jesus’ primary concern was for those whose faith was sincere; for those who were trying to follow the law; for those who were trying to live by faith.

 

Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples, ² “The teachers of religious law and the Pharisees are the official interpreters of the law of Moses. ³ So practice and obey whatever they tell you, but don’t follow their example. For they don’t practice what they teach. ⁴ They crush people with unbearable religious demands and never lift a finger to ease the burden.          NLT

 

Here are a couple of stories that I believe illustrate what Jesus was teaching his followers:

 

Years ago, my wife and I opened our home to a young man that I had worked with while in full time ministry. He lived with us because he had nowhere else to go. I remember him making a statement once when I asked him about making a decision to follow Christ. He responded, “I could never be as good as you”.

 

Apparently, somehow I had given him the impression that to be a Christian required more than just belief and faith. It required living a certain lifestyle of

being “a good person”; of being “a nice guy”.

 

In Keith Miller’s book, The Taste of New Wine, he tells the story of meeting a young woman who was considering faith in Christ. During the course of their conversation he tells her that God loves her unconditionally, just as she is. Her response to him is, “So your church will love me just as I am? Because I live with my boyfriend.”

 

There may be people in your life that don’t follow Christ. Think about how your life impacts their decision for, or against, Christ? Do they feel like they can’t live up to your standards? Or do they see that Christ came to save broken people; that you are one of those broken people; and that he loves them just as they are.

 

For us, it all boils down to these words:

 

³⁷ Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ ³⁸ This is the first and greatest commandment. ³⁹ And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ ⁴⁰ All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”     Matthew 22 NIV

 

 

 

Romans 2:17-29

There are many sayings I remember my grandfather reciting to me.  One of them was, "Do as I say, not as I do."  This was usually preached to me when I questioned a command he gave. For instance he might tell me to leave his tools alone.  I would challenge his order by citing he was always in the garage working on something and using those tools, so why couldn't I?

"you, then, who teach others, do you not teach yourself? You who preach against stealing, do you steal? You who say that people should not commit adultery, do you commit adultery? You who abhor idols, do you rob temples?  You who boast in the law, do you dishonor God by breaking the law?" (Romans 2:21-23)
The words from the Scripture reading today find a lesson in walking the walk and talking the talk.  How many of us have felt betrayed when someone we respected and admired because of their walk with Jesus, slipped up and did the opposite of what they taught or preached?

We are all human and we are all sinners, so we must be very careful not to be a stumbling block to others in this fashion. When up against a situation where temptation rears up and attempts to coax us to act opposite our faith it is time to ask, "What would Jesus do?"  Some suggest this saying is trite and over-simplified, but it works for me. I pray my walk and my talk always complement each other.

Read the Romans 2:17-29 text here.  Listen to the text here.